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Apathy 

10/17/2013

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I was on Twitter this evening and saw an article @Cyclelicious had posted regarding a 90-year old driver who "accidentally" pushed the gas pedal instead of the brake, drove up the sidewalk and pinned two 6-year-old children, at least one of whom is in critical condition. I used the word "accidentally" in quotations, not because I think he injured the children maliciously but because I feel that when you take the wheel of a 2000-pound+ killing machine, you are fully responsible for your actions and any resulting destruction. I truly, truly hate to see any crash described with the words "driver lost control of the car" as an explanation for deaths and injuries the driver caused. There are no car accidents, this is the carnage that happens daily because we live in a car-centric culture that puts these vehicles' value over the lives of children. It disgusts me. 

Sadly, these stories are often brushed aside without a second glance. However, right after I was on Twitter, I quickly popped over to FaceBook and the very first photo I see is a friend who had driven passed the scene of the very same crime, complete with SUV still parked against the storefront. She captioned it with this: 
"Omg...Apparently a elderly man drove forward & hit two kids! As I make my way to buy some cupcakes. — at SusieCakes." 
The hard part was the following comments to the photos. 
"well at least you have cupcakes? Cupcakes make everything better." 

and 

"Oh no hope everyone is ok. How are their cupcakes by the way?" 
It just hurts my heart to know how desensitized we have become. I know that these are good people and I have nothing against them. It's just that this is exactly how our society sees car-carnage, it's just a part of our lives. Nothing to see here, move along, go get cupcakes--I hear they fix everything. This is why nothing is going to get better, we don't even see a problem. Children are killed every single day by car drivers (not the cars themselves, they don't magically run into people on their own, mind you). More children die at the hands of someone at the wheel than guns, cancer, murder, disease, and yet nothing makes the front page of the news. Nothing shocks us enough to realize that we need to get these things off the roads. Even the AAP doctor's ridiculous rant against carrying children on bikes acknowledges that a car is the MOST DANGEROUS place to have your infant (even restrained). Even this misguided woman hits right to the point with her very last word: “Get everybody to walk to school, get traffic-free streets — they’ve done that in some communities, ‘no cars on this street.’”

While I try to keep my postings fairly positive, today this hit me harder than I was expecting. The good thing is that as soon as I needed uplifting, I reread Dorie from Hum Of The City's latest post about fear. Dorie is a car-free mama as well who was run over by a driver months ago. She has been painfully and slowly recovering but explains perfectly why she is still getting around by bike. Read it, she is incredible. (You have no excuse, I've linked to it four times. And you can find it here: http://humofthecity.com/2013/10/16/the-only-thing-we-have-to-fear/). 
3 Comments
Jarrod link
10/21/2013 01:25:55 pm

I agree, Friend, and I feel for you in your frustration. Our nation has so many blind spots when it comes to our vices--so much so that many see them as virtues. We're obsessed wih cars, guns, beer and celebrity...and the very fact that it shocks and disgusts large portions of the rest of the world make it even more "righteous" to cling to these All-American icons. I believe, though, that how one lives--privately AND publicly--does make a difference.

The very intentional and conscientious manner in which you and Jose have chosen to live and advocate in this community makes an impact on others (it changed how our family lives and set us on a course to severely limiting our car use in favor of cycling, introducing us to whole new aspects of our world we hadn't known).

Big-picture-wise, we cannot affect large-scale change on our society within a brief window of opportunity, but we can continue to surge as part of the tide. I tried explaining to my kids that, when I was their age, recycling was a laughable concept to almost everyone (even in California), littering was a normal occurrence just about everywhere, and smoking was ubiquitous with nary a concern for anyone's long-term health issues or rights. I realized that a lot has changed in a few decades.

May we be at the forefront of presaging another massive shift in American societal attitude when it comes to our dangerous worship of automotive culture...

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Lamaia
10/21/2013 01:38:51 pm

I agree with Jarrod. Your example and sharing your example really helped me shift. It took me a year of reading yours and others blogs as well as my car dying, but now we have cut back our car usage a lot and are enjoying the ride!
Thank you!

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Elle
10/23/2013 11:31:47 am

Thank you both, Jarrod and Lamaia! I can be so easy to get absorbed into a pit of despair but great friends and a soothing bike ride is always just what is needed. I really appreciate the kind words!




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