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Why I stop

4/5/2013

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I used to run stop signs, roll red lights--all the time. I was never that biker who dangerously blew through intersections without looking, however. I thought I was being safe and sneaky--Idaho stopping in California. I am a biker, not a car. I need to move! 

I don't do that anymore. I stop. All. The. Time. Every light, I wait patiently. Every stop sign, I come to a stop and look both ways (although I don't always put my foot down, that's not required by law). I choose to ride predictably because that's the best way to keep myself and my kids, when they're onboard, as safe as we could possibly be. 

Reason #1
I don't want anyone to be able to place blame on me if I'm ever in an accident. Insurance companies are chomping at the bit to find the biker at fault. If I'm cruising through stop signs and disobeying traffic laws, they're more likely to come after me and say "look, you did that wrong, you probably did this wrong, too." I will be able to go to every red light camera and show that I am calmly waiting for the light to turn green just like everyone else. I will have eye witnesses to attest to my niceness. It's not going to be my fault in an accident. 

Reason #2
I don't want to do anything that I wouldn't want my children (or my students) doing. My kids watch every move I make. One day, they're going to be on their own bikes, barreling down the street (properly), and I don't want them to think it's acceptable for a biker to ride through intersections or ignore right-of-way rules. For one thing, children don't have the distance-judging abilities that adults do. They also don't have the same reasoning skills, either. Their eye-brain connection hasn't figured these things out yet. My flippant actions could put my children in danger down the road. Biking is dangerous and it takes serious concentration and decision-making, just like driving a car. If I can instill these behaviors in my kids now, I will feel better about them being on their own, both on a bike and in a car. 

Reason #3
I don't want to be a jerk. It's bad enough that there is too much cyclist-hatred out in the world, I don't want to be contributing to it. Every time a biker disobeys the law, drivers around them say "see, that's why bikers are so horrible." I make a conscious effort to be courteous and generous. I always try to stop for pedestrians and say hello as they pass by. I smile but politely refuse when a car driver tries to wave me through and it's not my turn (also because that can turn into a dangerous situation very quickly if other drivers aren't paying attention). I ride as if I am a legal driver of the road--which, surprise, I am! I want the same rights and recognition as car drivers. With those rights come the same responsibility. I wish that drivers would see me following the rules and think to themselves "wow, I guess all bikers aren't terrible" but in reality, they will usually only see what they want to see--bikers misbehaving. Let's try and cut that down, please, to give us all a better reputation. 

I can understand why bike drivers would want to keep moving. It's hard to start rolling again from a dead stop (try that with 80 lbs of kid, too). It's also not as fun. It takes work and balance, something that car drivers don't understand since they just push their foot a little to stop and go. It can also be scary. Oftentimes, you'll have car drivers squeezing in behind you and, most of the time, expect you to keep going. This is usually where I use my stop/slow arm signal. Not everyone still remembers what it means but it does draw attention that I'm about to do something. If there is a car really encroaching in my space, I might actually take a minute to put my foot down and really check the intersection before I go (yes, this is a little bit of passive-aggressive behavior, I'm sorry). Shifting down before you stop can really help you regain your momentum after stopping, which I'm getting better at remembering these days. 

Sadly, everywhere I go, bike and car drivers are disobeying the laws set in place to keep us safe. Twice last week, I watched cars stop at a red light then drive through as if it were a stop sign. I watch bikers riding down the wrong side of the road and plow through stop lights and stop signs without even touching the brakes or turning their heads. These people are dangerous for everyone on the road, especially the more vulnerable users like pedestrians and other bikers. I would like to see them all ticketed and required to go to traffic school. Car drivers, of course, should be held at an even higher standard as they are also driving a deadly 2,000 pound machine. 
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From The City of Vancouver
I was thinking that if bikers start using stopping as "interval training," we might be able to get more riders to do it. Man, it sure works them glutes! 
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SusanMc
4/6/2013 01:36:07 am

Thanks for this. I just started riding around on a cargo bike with my kids and have been guilty of the slowing to an *almost* stop before proceeding precisely for the reasons you cite: it is difficult to get going again with 80lbs of kids on board. I have no idea how to do a full stop without putting a foot down...or do you have a tiny roll too?

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Elle
4/6/2013 02:48:29 pm

Congratulations on your cargo bike! It can be hard to get your balance with a big heavy load. It gets much easier the more you ride. Remember to down shift before you get to the stop and it will be easier to start again. I can stop enough while keeping my balance but sometimes I do have to put my foot down for longer waits or if I start to wobble.

I just keep reminding myself how much more work it takes and therefore, I'll be much more fit!

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KYouell link
4/7/2013 05:28:32 am

I can tell you how I learned to balance without putting a foot down: ride in a parade. So.so.slow. I still put a foot down when I sense confusion from a driver. You can add looking away from them and talking to the kids or adjusting your helmet or gloves until they go. If I'm stopped post-hill I exaggerate how out of breath I am and that gets me lots of smiles and waves and drivers taking their turn when they should instead of royally decreeing that I may proceed out-of-turn.

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Elle
4/8/2013 06:07:06 am

I love your tips, Kath! It's true, with more practice comes more skill, which is not a bad thing. Maybe head to a parking lot and practice starting and stopping over and over until you feel like you have total control (which is probably never but you'll come close).

MimiB link
4/10/2013 03:14:43 am

I never cruise through red lights, but man - when you are crossing through uptown on say E Street - the roads are empty (because of the "do not enters, except bikes" and the stop signs abundant. The nervous Nelly in my always slows down at intersections, but I don't always come to a stop. Maybe I should start...

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David Macpherson
4/12/2013 02:41:14 pm

I am the 61 year-old father of my 6 year-old daughter, Lucy. She has never been driven to school. Regardless of weather, we ride our Co-Motion Periscope Tandem to school everyday and we observe all rules of the road. Please keep publishing your experience and resulting perspective. You are doing good well beyond your family. Thank you.

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